Showing posts with label Janet Stafford. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Janet Stafford. Show all posts

Friday, October 18, 2013

Janet Stafford's Funeral Report

My kind cousin, Margaret L., has a fragile newspaper clipping of the funeral report for Janet Stafford (b. 1880, d. 1903), which she typed up and sent to me.  Thank you SO MUCH, Margaret!



Report from the Local Newspaper of the Funeral of Janet Stafford

REMARKABLE SCENES AT A GEE CROSS FUNERAL

A Hyde young lady’s death in America.

There were some remarkable scenes in Hyde Chapel and the adjoining churchyard on Saturday afternoon last, on the occasion of the funeral of Miss Janet Stafford, daughter of Mr. Able Stafford, of the Gerrards, Gee Cross.  It will be remembered that the young lady mentioned died in America a short time ago.  The body was embalmed, and placed in a hermetically-sealed coffin, and brought several hundreds of miles on the railway, and then across the mighty Atlantic to be buried in Miss Stafford’s native village, this being done, we understand, in accordance with the express wish of the deceased young lady.  The body arrived, along with Miss Stafford’s mother, on Wednesday last week, and the interment was fixed for Saturday.  The ceremony was one of the most impressive and touching that has been witnessed in Gee Cross for a long time.  Almost all the elder scholars and members of the Primitive Methodist Chapel and Sunday School, where the late Miss Stafford was an earnest worker and member of the choir, followed the body of their former companion to its last resting-place, and the chapel yard and inside the edifice was crowded with numbers of sympathising friends.  As the remains were laid to rest there was scarcely an eye that was not moist with tears at the sad tragedy of death coming to one so young so many thousands of miles away from home in the midst of – excepting her mother and a few relatives, - strangers.  It will be remembered that the deceased young lady left Gee Cross on October 23rd 1902, in company with her cousins – who were at that time over on a visit, - from Salt Lake City, USA.  Miss Stafford had been ailing for a considerable length of time, and it was thought that the change of climate, together with the sea voyage, might prove beneficial to her health.  After having been there a short time, however, she gradually grew worse, and as her condition assumed a serious character her mother left England for America on June 30th and Mrs Stafford remained with her daughter up to the last, death taking place on August 17th, despite the attention of several medical men.  The deceased young lady, who was in her 23rd year, was greatly respected and esteemed in Gee Cross and the immediate vicinity.  She was a most active worker at the Gee Cross Primitive Methodist Sunday School and was also a member of the chapel choir, and from which place she will be greatly missed.  Along the route on Saturday, on the occasion of the funeral from the house to the chapel, the blinds were drawn at every house.  The coffin, which was of polished oak, was of a casket shape, with heavy silver mounts, and bore the inscription: “Janet Stafford, died August 17th 1903, in her 23rd year.”  It was carried from the house to the chapel by two of her cousins, Messrs J Rowbotham and Wm. Stafford, and Messrs. Fred Harrison, Wilfred Harrison, Frank Winterbottom and John Wilson, young men from the Sunday School.  Preceding the coffin walked six more of the deceased young lady’s cousins, Messrs Hy Stafford (Hyde), Arthur and Walter Stafford (Denton) Ernest and Walter Williamson (Woodley), and W.S. Rowbottom (Hyde).  These six acted as carriers from the chapel to the grave, and they were also preceded by the members of the young lady’s class from the school, the members of the chapel choir, members of the congregation and friends and also several of her late workmates.  Following the coffin came the chief mourners, as under:  Mr and Mrs Stafford (father and mother) and the other members of the family.  Then followed a large number of relatives of the deceased.  The officiating minister was the Rev. W.D. Judson, circuit minister, who conducted the service both at home and in the chapel in a most impressive manner, and at the graveside the hymn “Lead Kindly Light” was also sung.

The following is a complete list of the floral tokens received.
Harp, from her Father and Mother.
Harp, “To our dear Sister” from her sorrowing Brothers and Sisters.
Harp, “With Deepest Sympathy” from Uncle, Aunt and Cousins (Mr and Mrs E Rowbottom and family).
Wreath, “In loving memory” from Uncle Sam and Aunt Kate and Cousin May and Dick.
Anchor, “In loving remembrance of dear Janet”, from her Cousins, Salt Lake City.
Cross, “With sincere regret and loving sympathy” from her Cousins, Salt Lake City.
Wreath, “With heartfelt sympathy” from her workmates.
Harp, “In loving memory” from the members of the Choir.
Wreath, “With deep sympathy” from the Officials, Teachers and Scholars of the Gee Cross Primitive Methodist Sunday School.
Harp, “In loving memory” from the Young Ladies’ Class.
Wreath, “With deepest sympathy” from Mr and Mrs Brierley and family.
Wreath, “In deepest sympathy” from Mr and Mrs S Wilde and Family, Mottram Old Road, Gee Cross.
Wreath, “With deepest sympathy” from Mr and Mrs Bennett and family.
Wreath, “With deepest sympathy” from Mr and Mrs Frost and Mrs Mellor, Clough Fold.
Wreath, “With deepest sympathy” from Miss M. A. Aldcroft.
Wreath, “From Sympathising Friends” from Mr and Mrs Schofield, Rusholme.
Casket, “With love for Janet” from Miss Liggings.
Harp, from Mr Wm. Edwards and family.
Anchor, Mr and Mrs Jas. Wilson and family.

The following sent bouquets:
“A token of love to Janet” from Lizzie Garside.
“A token of deep sympathy” from Mrs Redfern and Family.
“With deepest sympathy” from Miss Aileen Hague.
“A tribute of sincere sympathy” from Mr and Mrs George Woolley.
Mrs J Stafford (Denton Aunty).
Mr and Mrs R Eyre.
Mrs Harding.
Miss Essie Taylor.
Miss E A Wilson.
Miss Florence Lees and Mrs Ingham (Haughton Green).
There was also an artificial wreath with globe and stand, from her brothers and sisters.

The remains were embalmed by Mr Joseph W. Taylor, Undertaker of Salt Lake City, USA, who also supplied the coffin, together with the case in which it was enclosed.

September 12th 1903.



Sunday, April 7, 2013

Stafford Family Photos

Joseph Dean's sister was Eliza (Dean) Stafford.  Her husband was Abel Stafford.

Many of the people in these picture have been identified with the kind help of my (sort-of-) newly-found cousin, Margaret L., and her mother.  Thanks SO MUCH!


Abel Stafford & Eliza Dean

Abel Stafford & Eliza Dean

This copy seems to have been sent to Joseph Dean in Wyoming, since the mounting board is from Evanston.




Abel & Eliza (Dean) Stafford Family

Sitting, Front:  Sarah Elizabeth "Cissie" Stafford, Samuel Stafford
Sitting, Middle (L to R):  Charlde Wild, Martha Ellen (Stafford) Wild, Abel Stafford, Eliza (Dean) Stafford, Janet Stafford
Standing, Back (L to R):  Lavinia (Stafford) Mottram, Alfred Mottram, Hannah (Whitehead) Stafford, David Stafford


Wedding Picture of Martha Ellen Stafford to Charles Wild
taken outside the family home on Ralph Fold

Most of the people on the left are probably family of the groom, Charles Wild.
Back Row (L to R):  1-8 (groom's family?), 9-David Stafford, 10-Hannah (Whitehead) Stafford,11-Samuel Stafford, 12-?, 13-John Ingham "Jack" Dean (Eliza Dean Stafford's nephew)
Middle Row (L to R):  1-4 (groom's family?), 5-Charles Wild (groom), 6-Martha Ellen Stafford (bride), 7-Abel Stafford, 8-Eliza (Dean) Stafford, 9-Janet Stafford (who died in America), 10-may be Lavinia or Clarinda Stafford
Front Row:  (groom's family?)


Saturday, April 6, 2013

Letter from Joseph Dean to David Stafford


1903 Jun 10
Letter from Joseph Dean to his nephew, David Stafford, describing Janet Stafford's (David's sister) health.
Janet passed away in August 1903 in Salt Lake City.  She was buried in England.


Transcript


Spring Valley 6/10 [19]03

Mr. David Stafford
102 Hyde Gee Cross

Dear Sir,

My Dear Nephew.  In answering your very kind and welcome letter recieved a little while ago, I will say that I was somewhat surprised at the tone of your letter, and I wish to say right here that it as never been looked upon by any of us as a burden, and we are only too sorry that things have taken the corse they have.  We know that your Father & Mother were doing what they thought was best for Janet, and not only what they thought best, but what they beleived to be their duty, and we have done all that money or Doctors could do, and in spite of all it seems the will of our Heavenly Father that your dear sister is not long for this earth unless something great & marvelious happens, for the Dear Girl is getting weaker & lower every day.

We called in another Dr. yesterday and he like the other three said there was no hopes for her.  Now my Dear Nephew, I do not want to make you feel bad in the least but do not be surprised if you should at any time get a letter telling you of her passing this mortality to immortality, and give thanks to our Heavenly Father for he doeth all things well.  We will have to look to him for strength to bear the trial, for I can truly say it is as great a trial for us to bear as though she was our own sweet Girl.

Now My Dear Boy it is not without prayers and tears that I am telling you these things, because myself and others of my family have tried to tell you but our harts have failed us.  The last letter that I wrote your Dear Father & Mother, I tried to tell them of the worst but I know I did not make it plain and do not blame us for not writing because the last month or six weeks we could not do it.  Now David I want you to tell your Father & Mother but for the love you bear them break the news gently.

Now in regard to some one coming out here I will leave that with you folks, because it is a long long ways, costs lots of money and as lots of dangers by sea & land, and this much I will promise you, that all shall be done for her that loveing hand can do.

Now I can’t tell you any more but we will all hope and pray for the best.

From your Uncle, Aunt, and the rest of the family,

Jos Dean

Oh, I may just state that the Doctors advise us to take her to the Hospital.  It may be best and if it is thought so we will take her but whichever way rest assured she will have good care.

Joseph Dean


[Typed from the original.  Spelling has been preserved, but some punctuation and paragraphing has been added to aid readability.  Original held in 2011 by RayDean Hill.]